Why are arabs so damn picky? and why are arabs so in love with nakad? I never knew that there are families out there who care more about their own happiness than that of their son. But...u live and learn...nd this past week...I learned A LOT. I know family is very important nd rida el laah men rida el waleedain...buttttt...sometimes I think parents ask too much of us and God should understand if we disagree or disobey them.

My new lessons in life and living have caused me to sit and think about many things..nd discuss things with various friends. After developing my brilliant "ALL Men are A$$holes Theory" which I havent published yet..tho I have given numerous talks about it to friends...I have today come up with "The A$$hole Hormone".Pls read the following, my thoughts on the male species nd their asshole capabilities...

The A$$hole Hormone:

While chatting with a friend of mine bout a flame from her past I suddenly came to a realization: all men are born with the asshole hormone. This hormone is implanted in a man's brain and only activates according to how honest/good a guy really is. Now no guy can avoid activating this hormone, as if it doesn't activate by a certain age/thought/or action...it will eventually self activate because all men, as we know, are assholes.

So yes, every guy is an asshole...whether his asshole hormone will kick in while ur dating him is hard to say...and all we ladies must take our chances. Also, we are not immune from meeting/dating more than one asshole. Unfortunately, the asshole hormone doesnt care if a woman has had her share of assholes, it will activate when it pleases, which is why we are subjected to so much assholeness in our lives.

Now the extremely lucky women out there...are the ones that meet a man after his asshole hormone as activated, run at its peak, and has now settled into only going off in small brief bursts when the man hasnt had enough to eat/sleep/drink etc...at this stage it is reduced to "grumpy hormone" which can easily be cured with a bit of sex or good meal or so on.

Good Luck finding "the one"!


*Pls note, this topic is not meant to offend anyyyyy men at all....or any other users of the site. It is merely my own humorous ramblings and thoughts....nd I thought I'd give us all smth to think bout, or at least, laugh at.

LOL .......I love your thoughts totally agree with u !

No offence guys !

Now lets talk serious about the family part
I think some families misunderstand their love to their own kids.......some try to control them under the band of love... in another word" misuse" ....and that's totally wrong.
I think parents should understand their kids better and trust them more.

the worst thing they can do is to interfere in their kids life......who they choose as partner.....how he treats her ...how she treats him.....trying to control how both should live ... what they can and can not do.

I believe that any third party in a relationship can destroy it .....no one should be in b/w from both parts the guy and the girl.

loving your family is a must and to obey them is a must too.......but there is limits to everything.

Alright, so I get what you're saying, I wasn't offended.
But what is it about guys that makes them assholes, I haven't heard any examples.
However it has confirmed my beliefs that women tend to break down the man behind his back to their girly friends.

Yasmina why your topic containing lot of asshole words ,i think maybe you need to see female doctor in private .

my advice is to stop eating chillies for now .

i see no wrong in families pressing hard on thiere kids & prepaire them for what to be easier life when they grow up,this is families duty & its not easy task becuase as you see some fail & some dont.

a parent is far more experinced in life than their child & from there duty they must make sure there child dont choose the wrong partner,also parent must get involved if they see something is wrong not to control but to correct.

well ,, tnx yasmin for the information about the new hormon and let me ask my doctors about it to get u more information about...but are u sure it is secreted from the brain??

I think u misunderstand me......I am talking about adults not young kids.
As I said parents should trust their kids.......they raised them well... so they know how they become as adults.....they can't just keep treating them like kids anymore.

Some parents misuse their love to their own kids.....for example if they didn't like your partner ....they might take it personal......forcing u to choose b/w them and her ......do u think this is right ?

I don't agree with u about parents should get involved in their life........that is totally wrong
all husbands and wives fight ....if a third party come in b/w it will go big and it might go out of hands.
they can solve it better with out no one help....for example if her mom interfered she might take her daughter side....even if she was wrong.....do u think that will help solving the problem ?
I don't think so!

I am not saying all parents can screw their kids life.....but some do.... and they do more harm than help.

I'm sorry Yasmina, but where on earth do u meet ur guy friends man!!!! .. i think i've seen far more women with this kind of attitude than men!

Why do u ask things that are irrelevant or do not concern u? I think maybe u should keep to urself nd not ask me to see a doctor, cuz if we were giving that kind of advice, ud be the first to be advised to see one. This topic is just for fun, if u cant see that the whole hormone thing is a joke...then I dont know what to tell u. My advice, is dont give me advice



hehehe well prelimenary tests show that the hormone is secreted from the brain...but further tests will be conducted in order to fully understand the hormone nd its effects better.

oh nd Bodoor..ya there r tons of mean evil women out there...Ive met lots of them too....scary scary women...I met one recently nd I was shocked to see that ppl like her actually exist. Bas what can u do? In life u meet all kinds of ppl....


Lelo I totally agree with u on what u said....at a certain age, I hope we all become mature adults capable of making our own decisions. We need to have logic and reason and be able to look at a prob/situation from all sides nd keep an open mind. If we are not able to do all this, then we should not think bout marriage or serious committment...nd if we let our parents treat us as kids, we deserve it. It means we are kids, and we dont deserve to have a marriage or anyone care about us seriously.

Yeah. what are you excatly refering to ? what are the effects of that hormone?

i was only trying to help you sis

Well, I think the parents should trust their kids(adults). cuz this will make the kids more responsible. and one thing to say here, HURRAY! Single LIFE

Thanx Sis for The Topic

Yasmina, obviously, I could realize why all girls that have dated me said to me “ you are special�. I think it is a bless from god not to have such hormone; god!
Anyways, your theory proves to me why girls like to be around me, since I do not have such hormone, not until now at least lol. Do you think it could kick in the future! I doubt it since I am well mannered lol.
I was thinking, what reasons could cause such phenomena! Is it possible, that it could be the weather in the city where you live could have such effects on activating such hormone. Did you try to date any man from anther part of the world? I do not know I am not good in analyzing DNA things but I am better in dating girls. What I am saying is that you are going to be aware of such kind of gentlemen manner when you realize that there are special men out there you could date once and forever. Trust me! I know myself lol

i'm really sorry, and i really dont want to put u down, but please dont ever take that seriously! omg...if i had a penny for everytime a gurl said this to a guy or the other way round, i would be a billionaire!! a gurl would say this to EVERY single guy she gets with, whether he really is special or not... and if u were truly special then the relationship would have lasted

Well, dating is different from relationships and they have different roles to get last. A date could lead to a relationship and u still can have date when you have a relationship (according to your roles). So it depends on what is that you want? For me, I just like dating because it is fun and that naturally makes girls feel that I am special. I am out of the normal frame that you are thinking of or talking about; nevertheless, I respect ur opinion. If you do not ride waves you do not feel the fine breeze flirting with your cheeks. I live my life to enjoy it and that leads me to be out of the frame that yasmina talked about earlier; nakad frame, which could normally be found not only in Arabic families but in any family and in any culture too, trust me on that. Obviously, I could be special when I understand others problem and instead of looking in details to solve the problems I could make them laugh and get relaxed to find solutions themselves. In this way I could hit 2 birds with one stone. I have good time, and they have problem solved. Seriously, what I found is that cool people are really good to hang out with them, and negative people are usually depressed no matter how life could be beautiful , they see it differently.

PS. This is cool topic and I see cool replys to my post

in that case onlyicecream, everyone is special then..and i mean it..EVERYONE.. and everyone is special and unique in their way

Your kidding Bodoor aren't u ?
No girl would say that to every single man she gets with unless she is desperate big time and fake ......fooling her self just to be in a relationship.
Not everyone you meet is special.... not even in their own way.

Well she could tell a man he is special, if she's simply a liar.
This is a trick women use to cater to men's ego's, and it usually works because men are so arrogant they don't even notice.
However being sneaky and manipulative is a common female trait.

no leley i wasnt kidding at all....and yes colin this is exactly wat i meant!
howa el kalam befloos?
and yesss a woman can be manipulative, but if the man is too arrogant to see it, then he deservers it

i agree here

la2 la2 la2.....ana w sunny agreeing on a point??

Hi Yasmina47,

Sometimes in our lives we all have pain and sorrow, but if we are wise we shouls know there is tomorrow.
Those words came from Charles Dickens.

I dont know why you are so negative about men???
Why men so negative about women????

Are we in a war??
Do we need to strip from our morals and religion and every decent thing God gave us just for the sake of 1 or 2 or even 1000 A******S as you discribed.

There are still good people outside will give you the wormest heart and hand and sucrifice their lives for you, why dont we look at the bright side of life.

If you going to talk about whose who there are lots of stories about women toooooooooooo, but does this mean ALL WOMEN.

There are always too types in MALE & FEMALE

1. LADIES & GENTLEMEN.
2. B*******S & A*****S.

The difference here WHERE & HOW we meet them.
You go to a night club you meet all No. 2 above meanwhile if you want to meet decent people I will leave tit to your imagination because I am sure you know the answer.

Frustration is dangerous weapon, and you need to be careful on how to use it.

Please forgive me I have nothing whatsoever about you personally, just as your own words my thoughts.

Just sit back & relax it is exactly as there is evel there id good.

The side of the family we will discuss it when you get marry and have kids.

guys are assholes oh no ............ were are you guyz daf3o 3an nafsko bel ro7 bel dam handaf3 3an nafsena ......


ana gay ahdy al nafous matfhamounesh 3'lt

Dear Friends,

if we take for granted that all human being are created equally , then if males would suffer of whats been described as "AssHole hormone" , then i can tell you for a fact that women reciprocate that Hormone by another one called "THE Bitch Hormone which is catalyst and induced by the secretion of the paranoia and little/EXTRA self confidence enzymes�

The difference between the AssHole hormone and the The Bitch hormone “Also referred to as “Being illogical non seeing the full picture Hormone� is that the Asshole hormone as indicated by yasmine hits man in a certain time… it peaks .. then it fades away for good “Hence man gets matured� BUT … the Bitch hormone … well we all know as men that it is a life time sentence and we have to live with and embrace it …. So life gets by :-)

This is in no capacity a disrespect to women, after all our mothers are women but explaining that nothing is perfect , perfection is only a theoretical achievement :-)








My new lessons in life and living have caused me to sit and think about many things..nd discuss things with various friends. After developing my brilliant "ALL Men are A$$holes Theory" which I havent published yet..tho I have given numerous talks about it to friends...I have today come up with "The A$$hole Hormone".Pls read the following, my thoughts on the male species nd their asshole capabilities...

I think 1 of the questions was why men likes women naked?
well it depends we only like to watch the pretty ones naked! and it's not just Arab men but all men (unless they're gay SICK!)

so why do you like watch naked women because we appreciate God's creation with the Female Anatomy with all these nice curves so basically we're just admiring the engineering!
I bet any woman would love to be appreciated

Sorry for being graphical but HEY you asked and you got my answer so don't complain

About the A*hole factor for here in USA it's totally the American woman who can't be pleased always wanting something! espeically in the big cities I don't like big cities girls so uptight & snobbish.

Country girls, small town girls & Canadian girls are much nicer

A*hole hormone can go both ways men or women but basically here is the rule: if you find yourself more important than your life partner and kids then you carry that hormone you selfish little BLEEP (BLEEP = any bad word basically)

The message of the day be nice & selfless because selfish people suck

thank you thank you

Matefra7esh awy kda you are not Canadian

actually.... u can say that i have more canadian in me than egyptian... living in canada... never lived in egypt...so yeah... canadian

Then you are not Egyptian

egyptian only by passport, birth certificate, language and culture lol
mooot b ghezak... and stop getting off topic

Ro7y shofeelek 7atta nashfa to23ody feha

Thank you Yasmina for this thread its very interesting and more so was all the replys to this thread ... I read all of them and was giggled through most of them... bas then well I thought about it .... While there really isn't one of us that have had our fair share of say selfish people... (aka a**holes) 3yneey They are just a part of life.. whether they are guys or girls ... both have the propensity to be creeps... I have only really met a few real jerks and witches in my life bas then... I try to stay clear from their sort of behaviors... DG ur in the wrong place .. get out of the city my friend...Really nice people can be found any where .. and in any country...

well I can't for now but hopefully soon out of Boston

Try going west ... its better